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Education Foundation
(A nonprofit public service organization)
How do Parents Motivate their Kids?
Our no frills parenting program DE-MYSTIFIES
the problems parents face in raising their kids. We want to
make parenting fun and very easy for you to understand.
WHY CAN'T YOU MOTIVATE YOUR KIDS?
KIDS, LIKE ALL OTHER LIVING ORGANISMS
ARE MOTIVATED BY NEED! KIDS WITHOUT REAL NEEDS CAN NOT BE MOTIVATED
Read that over and over, it
is one of the great secrets of becoming a motivating parent
instead of a parent that nags, controls and punishes because
kids won't do what they are asked to do.
Can it be that simple? Yes!
Learn the dynamics of how parents train their kids to be lazy,
disrespectful, ungrateful brats.
- Parents get into the habit of providing
every needful thing for their kids when they are small and
as the kids get older the parents mistakenly continue to provide
more and more.
- What are the consequences of all
this providing? The kids never have any NEEDS and
are therefor never motivated.
- Generally we observe that parents
who are having difficulties with their kids have put them
on what we call 'Teenage Retirement'. These parents
have given so much, for so long, that their kids develop a
'Sense of Entitlement' which means that they just expect everything
to be provided for them without any effort or work on their
part.
- Such well meaning but ignorant parents
train their children to live irresponsible lives.
These children develop more slowly than their peers because
they are not required to work and earn and to manage their
own time and recourses. These children fail to develop the
skills and self esteem to do well in life and often become
real problems. Such parents set their children up for disappointment
and failure.
Learn how to get your kids off 'Teenage
Retirement' which is so destructive. Learn how to get
your kids to work and to be motivated. How do you create needs
in your child's life so that they will be motivated? That
is what you will learn from our parenting program.
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